How To Meddle

Confidential to the Meddler: Your friend is smart, cute, creative, independent, politically active for all the right causes, and a great cook, but there's nothing you can do if he's not what the chickadee is looking for in a long term relationship. If your friend is not comfortable with a solid, lifelong friendship perhaps with some occasional drunken kissing when appropriate, then he needs to tell the chickadee. Based on your description of her, she sounds like she'll be cool about it.

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